How to give your wife an orgasm with your tongue-10 tips to give your wife an orgasm with your tongue

Every man wants to please a woman in bed and satisfy her to mind-blowing orgasms.

In order to please a woman in bed, you need to understand her needs and what she wants during sex. Oral sex is physically better for a woman than fingering. Your fingers are hard, dry, and chafing. Your mouth, by contrast, is warm and moist. Much more importantly, oral sex is psychologically better.

The intimacy of your face in between her legs is a huge turn on for her. Compared to this, foreplay consisting only of probing fingers can seem platonic and impersonal. Every man wants to be the best that his girl has ever had. It's good to experiment with how firm and soft you make your tongue. Almost any woman will enjoy a good soft tongue lapping up and down from her pussy to the tip of her clit.

Spend some time investigating all of her folds, licking and sucking on every inch of her down there. Use your hands to spread her open, pointing your tongue darting around her pussy to different areas but always going back to the clit from time to time. Here are a few tips to help you.

1. Don't start in the bedroom - Want to increase the

chances she will orgasm? When was the last time you

gave her a suprise with a little drawing, letter or

flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or

not, creative and romantic gestures DO turn women

on because love and lovemaking are interconnected

in a woman’s brain. Do this and you can

bet-your-bottom-dollar you'll be doing more than

just eating dinner when she walks in the door!

2. Relax her - It’s hard for women to orgasm if

they are stressed. Give her a quick back massage.

Rub her shoulders, upper back and neck to melt away

the tension.

3. Ignore the vagina - Do you know that prolonged

foreplay actually increases the chances of her

coming? That's right. By kissing, caressing and

touching her LONGER, you’ll build the sexual

tension and often the anticipation will be very

powerful.

4. Change your focus - If you focus all your attention

on the woman first, you'll make love to her much

more passionately. Think about it! If you've

finished first and decide to help her come, you

won't have the enthusiasm and passion that's needed

to keep her hot and turned on.

5. Tip to last longer - Of course the first step to

help her to reach orgasm is by not coming. The very best

way i have found to not come is: Penetrate as normal

and when you feel like you're about to come, simply

move your hips in a circular motion (like swaying a

hula hoop) and wait until the “little guys” subside

again. Now continue.

6. Don't use lubricants - Women have a natural

lubricant that fills the vagina when they're turned

on. By using a product substitute, you're only

fooling yourself. Without products, you’ll

instantly know if things are working; but with

them, you can never be sure.

7. Never too much clitoris - Did you know that once

you've stimulated the clitoris for some time, a

little thing called the clitoral hood will actually

come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from

further direct stimulation? (And no, I'm not making

this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully

stimulated, make sure you pleasure the G-spot next,

whether it be with your hand, tongue or penis.

8. Find and stimulate the G spot - The G-spot is a

zone that feels like the roof of your mouth and is

located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the

topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There

are two basic ways you can pleasure the G. With

your fingers by doing a “come here” motion or with

a love position that helps hit the G-spot…

9. Use the best position - Not all love positions are

made equal. The best one for women is the reverse

missionary (woman on top). This is probably the

easiest position for a woman to climax because she

can control the friction to her clitoris and/or

G-spot.

10. Give her oral sex ­ The best way to help a

woman reach orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by

going down on her . While at first I

didn’t believe it, countless studies have been done

to prove this fact. Oral sex is easier and much

more satisfying for women than intercourse is.

Try the ABC’s with your tongue, ask what she likes,

and mix it up with lots of different movements!

However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve

endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything

there is to know before poking your tongue around

there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even

worse, spoil the mood.

There you have it ­ 10 tips you can start using

right away to give women the most earth-shattering

experience of their lives.

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of

Lick by Lick, the complete guide to giving women

oral pleasure. Unfortunately, most men leave women

frustrated and disappointed after cunnilingus.

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By: michael